Victoria here, Girlboss’ executive editor. 👋

Who here is single, successful, and secretly wondering if that combo is working against you in your love life? (Me too!) ✋ Today’s reader is questioning whether her success is “too intimidating” and scaring guys away. But maybe the real issue isn’t her ambition—it’s the insecure men she’s dating. 🥱

Other stuff the Girlboss team is yapping about on Slack:

💼 Job of the day: Cool-girl olive oil brand Graza is hiring a Partnerships Manager. 🫒 A $100K–$120K salary, plus free olive oil and mayo? We’re listening (and applying).